When I was about 15 years old I got this idea (with help from a now lost friend) that all good things You ever feel contribute to something vague I'd like to call a world heart, a "space" containing forever all kinds of loves in a way that cannot be harmful or bad in ANY way to anybody/anything.
Isn't it a nice thought that all love is good and eternal?
I'd like to quote violinist Dina Schneidermann : "It's nothing to be proud of that You cannot appreciate something, the loss is only Yours" - this was regarding my (I was 16) opinion on Heifetz's recording of the Bach Sonatas and Partitas if I remember right but can easily be translated into a thought that was implanted in me that moment, "what if there is something in this i can appreciate"
I believe I am seen by many as a person who is "critical", (I like to think that it is my looking into moments/things to see what they contain, what I can "love" inside them that comes through as analytical or "cold"). There is a common anxiety that analyse is somehow opposing love, something I obviously do not believe ... So, what is love to me can be seen as "being critical" by another person - a proof of how little we can assume to know about the feelings of our fellow humans!
What is love? Can it be shared? I think we can deeply appreciate (love) to have the opportunity to listen to someone elses experiences of love, what we actually do just then is filling the space between us with a profound lust to communicate, a feeling of the great joy to GIVE/exchange energy
(which i believe is what love is all about). "Love, a will to become joined, to reduce distance"
Can love disappear? No I think never (see above)! Can "old loves" be harmful? No I don't think so, the more love existing among us the better. Can love be insufficient? If love is positive energy, that will depend on Your personal expectations which I think is not very relevant at all to giving energy!
I think the best thing in life is the possibility to love someone (and somethings).
